Beryl Singleton Bissell The Scent of God

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Your book was truly mesmerizing and emotionally moving as I sat up until 4:00 a.m. one evening. It was sculptural and textured in a way that made it visual for me. And, of course, I identified a lot with the strivings and history of perfectionism and fears that I learned as a child as well." -- Jackie S, Bovie MN

I recently read your book and could hardly put it down. It is so well written. I love your use of the English language. I can't wait for you to finish your next book.- Katy G, Sun City West

I just finished reading your book (while on vacation in Arizona) and couldn't put it down. It is so full of life, passion, self-reflection, etc. I really learned from it and enjoyed it and can’t wait to read your articles. – Shawnee K., MN

Hello beryl, I wanted to say thank you for writing your memoir. I have enjoyed it so very much. I have been touched and blessed reading you and Vittorio’s story, I found myself suspicious of him, wondering if you were going to waste your life loving a man who wanted it all. What a wonderful story of your journey through life with the lord, indeed throughout your story there is the scent of a loving and unfathomable god. Thank you for sharing your story beryl. – Vicki C, Palmerston North, New Zealand

Your book was so moving, I loved it and will read whatever you write from now on. I wonder sometimes how you and Vittorio kept your faith through it all.

The Scent of God lived up to and surpassed every glowing comment I had read about it beforehand. I felt as if I had walked with you every step of your remarkable journey. Your sensitive and honest portrayal of such multi-faceted emotional and spiritual issues, and the paths down which God took you and your family, have blessed my heart. Christine H – Little Rock AR

I just finished your unbelievable book The Scent of God. I could not put it down. Neither could my two girlfriends who recommended it, so you’re now making the rounds in Summit, NJ. I just wanted to write and tell you how touched and inspired I was by your story. I actually think it’s made me think about my relationship with God a little more as well.” – Julie M, Summit NJ

Being Catholic, and now just discovering the content, and yes I waited till I mailed my entry to find out, (Catholic upbringing would not let me cheat, Loretto nuns, whom I adored) has let me know this is a "must read" for me. I almost became a nun, until hormones over took me as a Freshman in High School, and I determined my "calling" was all a romantic notion in my mind, and in reality it did not exist. I did not ever have the shared love of faith with any man I met, and soon lost all hope of sharing it with anyone due to life and the situations in it. Including the kidnapping of my youngest son, by his father. I have tried to write of it, and maybe this book will give me the courage to do so. And finally publicly express my faith, without the guilt I feel for what happened in my life, although many could have helped, due to who his father was, no one did. He remained gone from the time he was three, until he was almost in High School. And I again had to seek God to deal with what his Father had done to us, my children, his brother and sister, and myself, Mother and "lost woman", whom all suffered at the hand of this man. Maybe I will win a copy of the book. If not, I shall try to procure it in the city, when I get there, or off the net as I can afford it, as I am now a disabled old lady, with many memories, but a very active soul, still connected to our Maker. He is the only one that can repair my heart, and I hope your book opens a new door to finding Him. Thanks, Ellen B from Gather.

I am one of the fortunate women you spoke with at Jessie's book group. Your thoughts have been rolling around in my head since Thursday night and I know I'll carry many of them for a lifetime. I don't know when I've been so inspired...both by your book and then by your "presence" with us. You were truly "there" for us. It was hard to believe, that through that simple telephone in the middle of the table, we could all share such an intimate experience. I felt myself swept up in your soothing voice and beautiful words, almost as if I was being carried along with you on that river you described. I've been telling everyone about you and your book. Your message is truly enriching lives." -- Tammy B, White Pine, MI

Couldn’t wait to finish it, but didn’t want it to end! -- Peggy S. of Green Bay, WI

I just read your book and I believe God meant for me to find that link and read your beautiful, courageous and thoroughly inspiring story. It captures all of the elements of your experiences so exquisitely: your faith, despair, struggling to divine God’s will for you (pun intended, I think!), and your ability to find joy and peace even in those moments of heartache. I truly admire you and your journey.”– Laura G, New Brighton MN

Your story has freed my heart from the cage of my own experience. Imprisoned feelings fly like flocks of white doves into the healing light. This is a turning point for me. How can I ever thank you. -- Natalie N.

What a treasure your book is. I finished the book in two days and will pass it on to my daughters and my mother to read. As Catholics we tend to put those in religious life on a pedestal and expect perfection from them - and we can be quite unforgiving when there is failure. Your book reminds us that even those who may appear to fail in their vocations can still have great faith and love to share. I also think you did a wonderful job of helping readers understand the real purpose of cloistered life - I have never been able to answer that question for myself or others before reading your book." -- Susan, Superior WI

Last night I finished your book, The Scent of God. I was grateful that this one time I was not sitting on a train snatching a few pages. Last night's conclusion left tears streaming down my face -- an emotion I was earlier on able to control by swallowing and averting my eyes away from the pages. I felt my faith in God elevate as I saw such a loving Being through your life. I wish with all my heart that many who see the church as scarred and thus turn their backs on God will find the reality of your message -- flawed humans doing their best to lead others into His arms. Flawed humans doing God's work. -- Heather B

I have just such a respect for your ability to open up and give us such an insight into a life that is most foreign to my own staid Lutheran Scandinavian upbringing! With all of life's twists and turns, sorrow and joy, I still felt that I could relate to you--again my thanks for your sharing with us your story -- Marlys C

I found myself riveted by this story which moves in and out of Puerto Rico, New York and Italy, through a long search to define the meaning of faith and to work past the many obstacles encountered along the way. This remarkably fast-paced book, for all its emphasis on a contemplative life, is jammed with intense experiences all lived before the age of forty, and it is so well-written that it immediately establishes common ground with any reader. I give it my highest recommendation. -- Gerry W

Thank you and God bless you so richly. Amidst the flood of emotions I have felt for the past 2 weeks while reading your story, I fell in love with Vittorio along with you, Beryl. And... I fell in love with his country, His God and His children through your eyes. You are the Potter's clay..... thank you for sharing your journey. I'm passing your story on to my mother. She's about your age and has heard me speak of you.

I recently read your memoir and was blown away. It was one of the most intriguing and inspiring books I've read in quite some time. -- Jennifer S., PA

I was so thrilled with your book. Your prose is pure poetry. -- Anne B., Florida

I was much taken by your concise and straightforward simplicity and economy of expression. It was truly a lovely, lovely book, and I’m so glad I read it. There was no slant, no agenda, just a simple, honest and beautifully told story. –- Martha G., Kentucky

I finished Scent of God a few nights ago--it is so charged with energy that it's been keeping me up! Especially the last fourth of the book I found rich and evocative of change and loss and love and ITALY and of course Italians. Lush writing, but honest too. Your portrayal of your mother in all your empathy and concern does not hide the difficulties she created in and around you. This certainly strikes a note of similarity in me, my own mother being the same (actually I suspect much worse) mix of demanding criticism and necessary guidance. But it is your love for Vittorio and the life you made together in the midst of his dying that I can't get out of my mind. Like the way a dark sky enhances and deepens colors, his illness and dying intensified into jewel tones your surroundings, the adorable childish moments, and your passion for this man. Splendid portrayal. Thank you so much. -– Margot Galt, Minneapolis, MN

I just read your book, "The Scent of God." I was so surprised. It is hard for me to find books that I really want to read all the way through. Yours captured me. I am so glad you wrote it. So many of your experiences spoke to me. I laughed and cried with you on your journey. Thank you for your book. --Lesley M, Washington

I had not heard of your book until it was selected for or neighborhood book club. I could not put the book down. I am what I describe as a liberal Catholic, and I felt so moved by what you and Vittorio had to go through. Then when I got to his illness and death, I could barely finish. I lost my dad in February to Pancreatic Cancer and the description was so vivid that it broke my heart. You are such a survivor! I hope never to experience the heartache you have had to endure and the guilt I'm sure you have suffered, despite the happiness that it all may have stemmed from. I look forward to your next book and wish you much joy!

Thank you for The Scent of God. You wrote so honestly about the illusions and devotion of a young but serious faith, the struggles of spiritual and psychological growth, the realities of natural human longings for love and for all the joyful pleasures this world offers. The very best part about reading your book is the witness it is to the faithfulness of our loving God. It was so good to read about your confidence, even on the roller coaster, that we are cherished by our Maker just as we are, no matter what. -- Donna-Jean B. -- Toronto

I just finished reading your book that I selected for our neighborhood women's book club this month, and I can't wait to meet with the group later this month and share our thoughts about it. I'm happy to find your website today and discover the discussion questions, the follow up on the convent sale, and your blog. Your book has held me captive for the past week, and I highly commend you on your skill as a writer, your honesty, and your devotion to your family and your God. Your words brought me to tears many times, and I feel as if I have truly walked in your sandals!" -- Sonna R.,TN

Dear Beryl, I went to Borders on my day off and I browsed through the books when I came upon your "Scent of God". I read the back cover and it mentioned that you lived in Puerto Rico and I being Puerto Rican and having lived in Puerto Rico was immediately captured. I found a comfortable seat in the Literature section and began to read and read and I couldn't put the book down. Thank you for sharing your story and for the courage to share it with all the details. I am going to recommend your book to my sisters who usually pick a Book to read during their Reunions.-- S.Colón, NYC - CT

A friend of my mother's gave me your memoir to read. I just started it today. I also went to Airmont School. In fact, I have a brick from it. They were giving them away. The place were the school once stood is now a strip mall and the town (or village) I live in is known as Airmont. Small world isn't it?

I have lived your book. I have gone back to Italy, I have felt what you were going through. You are a great story teller. -- Rita R. , San Juan PR

Beryl, I loved your book! I couldn't put it down... I read it in two days, neglecting my own work and I'm afraid, my dear husband. You have a wonderful way with words and an incredible story to tell. Thank you for sharing it with the world! It ranks among the best memoirs I've ever read. I included a mention of it in my blog on March 16. (http://rachellegardner.blogspot.com/) Thank you for an amazing reading experience! -- Rachelle

What a wonderful book -- I literally could not stop reading till I finished. Thank you!

Thank you for sharing your story of God's amazing love. I didn't want this book to end. -- Paulette, Northwood, ND

It is 10:00 pm and I just finished your book. What a wonderful journey to share. Your journey feels like mine, as I’m sure others have said as well. I so appreciated your openness concerning anger and frustration with the church and how we somehow can still reconcile with and accept it. The dying you experienced with Vittorio reminded me of my caring for my wife during her final months and at being with her in the last minutes of her life. Once one has had the “opportunity” to experience those moments, life can never be the same. Thanks for the inspiration to tell our own stories. -- Steve L., MN

Beryl - I just got through reading your book. It's such an inspiring story of faith and love. I myself have am still discerning the call to religious life. I'm a pre-novice for the Marianist Order, and your book is such and encouraging story of perseverance, faith and unconditional love. I will treasure it. Peace -- Brandon A

I have just finished reading your book 'The Scent of God' and had to write and tell you how much I enjoyed it. Your writing style had me captured from the first page. I felt as though I was reading a beautiful touching novel rather than a true story. Your writing had a way of absorbing me into each location, event etc. The honesty with which you wrote about your life was breath taking - thank you so much for writing such a wonderful book. I didn't want it to end. -- Felicity W., Ontario

Your book moved me to tears many times and on two occasions I had to just put it down for a day or two (it's too difficult to read through eyes welled with tears and a lump so big in your throat that swallowing felt like a meatball trying to slide down a straw!) My sister came to visit from L.A.. She's an avid reader and finished her own book two days before she was to leave. I gave her your book for the night. She said memoir wasn't really the type of book that she enjoyed, but it was the only option I offered so she took it. She ended up taking it home with her to finish and called and told me she loved reading it! I easily turn an e-mail into a tome and I apologize for that. I just really want you to know that I loved "Scent of God", plan on re-reading it and will pass it on to 3 more sisters of mine. I love how you write, express yourself and how you make visualizing things so easy. -- Olga B., NJ

I was number 54 on the 160-person Hennepin County Library waiting list for your book when a good friend loaned me her parents' copy. (We were going on a hiking trip together, and that book was my one desire for reading in the mountains. Having read it, I'll be buying my own copy next paycheck!). I hope that everyone who's read your book has not besieged you with emails, as I am doing, but I wanted to ask that you add me to your newsletter email list. And also to tell you that of the thousands of books I've read, yours is one of the very best. Thanks for your book; it was truly a journey and joy to read. -- Denise H., Minneapolis

Both my husband and I read your most interesting book and neither one of us could put it down. It was so well written! You have accomplished a very sincere portrayal of an exquisitely sensitive soul in search for love. Never in a million years could I have imagined all the grief you have suffered in your life. Thank you for writing your story with words that genuinely came straight from your heart. It will surely help many people to carry the burdens that they must bear in their lives. -– Eileen C., Puerto Rico

Well I must say reading the sent of god was a delight. Thank you for sharing your story. It is comforting to read that others share similarities in life, God bless you and those so dear to you. -- Mike P.

Sometimes you meet the right person, hear the right words, and read the right book at a time when part of your world has caved in. When I met you heard you speak , I had just learned that my oldest son had been diagnosed with cancer. I read your book straight through, and found your courage throughout your husband’s illness and alter your beloved daughter’s death more than inspiring. Your constant faith and joy in living struck a chord in my own soul. This is just a note to thank you for writing this book, and for your brilliant expression of human emotions which are part of all of our lives.-- Jinny H., MN

I stayed up half the night last night finishing your book, "the Scent of God". I could not put it down. I ordered my copy only a very few minutes after I read David Rochester's blog post regarding your book and I am so glad I did. I want to thank you for sharing the intimate details of your life with your readers. What I found the most remarkable about your book was how I was able to visualize so much of what was going on, as if I was there. I think that is the mark of a truly gifted writer. I commend you for your courage in giving this book to the world with such dignity, honesty and beauty. This book is one I can say will live with me as if I had heard the story from your lips to my ears. -- Rachel H., Edmonton, Alberta

Beryl, I wanted to say how much I thoroughly enjoyed your book. I was so very touched by your story. I was captivated by your love for Vittorio and could not stop trembling with tears as I read through the pages of his death, and was then devastated to read about the death of your daughter. I cannot imagine the pain you have endured, but what joy must have come as well from these wonderful people in your life. You are a wonderful writer and I hope that you continue your story. -- Alesha, Georgia

Beryl: I loved your book and am anxiously awaiting your next work. Thank you for graciously sharing your time and talent with our book club. -- Stacy Broman, Inver Grove Heights

I finished your book, and found it to be one that I couldn’t put down…didn’t want to do anything but read last Saturday morn. Your honesty and at times raw emotions, I found very powerful. Your book was one that gave me thought to my own family dynamics, life decisions that I have made, and my (our) relationship with God. You put yourself out there-completely I think. Thank you for sharing yourself. -- M Johnson, Taylor Falls MN

Ten minutes ago I finished reading your memoir. Though I am not Catholic, your honesty, so candid and refreshing, reminded me of a time when I too was exasperated and furious with God. This incredible journey of love, forgiveness, suffering and joy, for me, is often inexplicable; yet you managed so eloquently and simply to convey these deep sentiments in less than 300 pages. What a wonderful and anointed read!! -- Judith, Canton MI

Your book was recommended via e-mail by my local library under "Religion and Spirituality" books. I picked it up yesterday and finished it in a day. It is such an extraordinary memoir. I have about fifty friends that will relish it as I did! I, too, am the product of Catholic schools and toyed with the nun vs. marriage choice, and opted for the latter. Your writing is so readable and your love of God so apparent that it was an inspiration to find someone who expressed what all "good" Catholic girls experience. Really, I cannot say how impressed I was with your writing and how much I loved the book. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. -- Yvonne H, Cupertino CA

After reading Cornwell's "Seminary Boy", and Armstrong's "Spiral Staircase", and a number of other memoirs by priests and nuns, yours struck me as particularly touching. Just wanted to know how your story touched me. It was told with candor, without the idealization and revisionism that the past tense often brings to the present tense. "Scent of God" is a book that stands in chiaroscuro, shining its whiteness of hope, in stark contrast to "The Year of Magical Thinking" and its blackness of despair. –- Terry S. IL

I am OVERCOME. The Scent of God is such an overwhelming adventure of love and loss and love and ongoing revelation. I cannot believe you have survived it and then were able to tell all of it. It is a story all grown up Catholic Girls should read and all 40-90 year olds should read for it tells the story of God's love and how it is always there, always teaching us where to lean, where to learn and where to live and how to live. I think this book needs to be in every parish book club and be discussed chapter by chapter." –- Janie J, MN

"The Scent of God" really touched me very deeply. I reminisced about my education in a convent school in Quebec, and relived the loss of my husband and son. Thank you for a very moving experience. -- Pat Ciochetto, Grand Marais, MN

Thank you for the most wonderful book I have ever read. For your honesty and most of all, sharing such love with me and so many. For months, I have been wishing for a book such as The Scent of God. I have been spending time wishing, praying, talking while running along, and not really believing I would find this book I longed to find (but knew was forthcoming and yes, we always have reasons and there are reasons for my longing!). God gave me much more than I expected when He said, "here you go, read this..." Always being active in the church in one way or another and desperately seeking the to understand the love of God (I was raised Missouri Synod Lutheran, I am also half Red Lake Indian and half Finnish - caught in two worlds per se), for the first time in my life I believe I caught a real, true glimpse of what God's unconditional love really looks like in someone, really feels like ... this because I felt such love for God and people emanating from your heartfelt words. I was never left feeling hopeless, covered with guilt, surrounded by my own weaknesses and sins...I felt good and full of love myself! This is unlike most other Christian works that I read. Those focused on sin and weaknesses, fear and my doomed reality ... I have so many ongoing questions about God and real love, what it looks like, whether I am wrong to hope and pray for the truth as it really exists ... To you, thanks for being a part of the ongoing answers that I find as I journey along. You touched my life in a way you will probably never fully know, as I am sure you have done to so many. I am grateful and have been telling everyone to read your book! -- Annamarie, MN

I heard your interview on MPR a few weeks ago and rushed to buy your book. I have just finished devouring it this weekend, and I am writing to thank you for sharing your story. I appreciate that you shared it with such candor and humility, and that you framed such a beautiful picture of God. Sometimes I need reminders such as your book to remember that indeed the scent of God is evident in every aspect of my life, not least of all in its struggles. You're not the only one who tends to see a sign in everything . . . I believe that finding your book was one for me. A reminder that life is more than it seems. Thank you again. -- Ann S, Milaca

I wanted to write a brief email to tell you how much I enjoyed ‘The Scent of God.’ It has been a while since I have been able to wrap my head around a book with a full time job, being a mother, wife, sister, daughter, etc. I read an article in the newspaper about you and your aforementioned book, and was instantly intrigued! I then suggested it to my book club and they all agreed it was a definite yes. A few weeks later I received a call from a woman in our book club who said, “Thank you for recommending this book…It’s the best one we’ve ever read! -- Susan L., Minneapolis

I just finished "the scent of god." I did not want to turn the last page!!! I so wanted to continue being part of your world, your discoveries, your adventures. I met you in Duluth during the summer at your reading at the Depot and I asked you if you found God yet. You told me you were still looking ... but it seems to me after reading "the scent of god" you most surely did! I loved it! I loved it! I loved it! (the book) I mean. Thank you for sharing your stunning and painful memories with the world. What a priceless gift. -- Kim R, Duluth

Where do I begin to tell you how much I enjoyed Scent of God?? It was an exquisite read. Your entire story is truly a life well lived. The sense of peace you have with your life even through your remarkable battles and losses comes across loud and clear in your written words. You see, everyday I work with patients with scars from their battles and their losses that have nearly destroyed them. Your story is an example that even through the worst of times there can be peace if we allow ourselves to seek it. Thank you for the gift of sharing your life with me. May God bless you all the days of your life and keep you safe. –- Janet G., Lodi, NJ

I read your book, The Scent of God, hardly able to put it down. It spoke worlds to me of love and compassion and commitments as it did to others of my friends who have read it. –- Barbara S., Tinton Falls, NJ

Beryl, Your memoir has touched my Heart and Soul, this book was very passionate on all levels. It is so beautiful to know two people can love each other that deep. I am so happy to learn you have found peace and happiness in any situation that was passed on to you. You are a very strong and have much courage. I commend you as a women and a person. -- Nazreen A., NYC

I haven't been able to put your book down. It's truly riveting and very powerful. Have you sold the movie rights yet? I think it would be a fantastic film. By the way, it was face-out on the shelf at our local bookstore, so they are giving you a high priority. I think you may have a best-seller on your hands. It's an affecting piece of work. –- Owen D., Santa Barbara

Beryl, I heard you on MPR while at work and immediately went on line to get your book. I just finished it last night and had to let you know how it affected me. I could hardly put it down. I have not had the same experiences that you have had but could really relate to the emotion you expressed. It is a wonderful book which I have already recommended to others. Thank you for sharing your life -- Kay S, Two Harbors, MN

I just finished reading your story last night and I felt like I needed to write to you to tell you how wonderful I thought it was. Your writing is so descriptive, I felt like I was there in your story. I could picture everything so vividly. It was beautiful. The last 10 chapters of your story, felt so close to my heart. My 28-year-old cousin is losing her husband to esophageal cancer and my whole family is having a difficult time understanding God's plan. Blaming God for many things has been the theme for the last 9 months. When you wrote about your suffering and how you were angry at God, it was like seeing my family through you. You said that suffering was a part of life and that we don't suffer alone, that God is with us. That touched my heart so deeply. Your story could not have come at a better time. Thank you Beryl for sharing your story and touching our lives. -- Amy B.R., NJ

I'm not sure if you will remember me. I was on the Yellowstone River trip with you and Bill in 1996. I read your book today . . . sat down to rest for a few minutes, thinking I would start the book; I didn't put it down until I finished it several hours later. Wow! As I read the book, I heard your voice. It is an incredible story and you've told it with passion and grace. I keep thinking about it, which means it was an excellent read. What I continue coming back to is that I am not Catholic. I'm not even particularly religious. And I didn't need to be either to understand. Your story is about a girl becoming a woman under extraordinary circumstances. Congratulations. -– Bobbi R. Ashland, WI

I wish to thank you for your memoir The Scent of God. I recently returned from a week's vacation in the beautiful wilderness of the Abasaroka Mountains in Montana. Before we left I heard your interview on MPR and was moved to purchase your book that very afternoon. Captured by your writing style and openness of your story, I found myself wanting to savor the words, making the book last. Thank you Beryl for your truth and love that you share so openly in the words of your memoir. I encourage you in your gift of writing and look forward to more." -- Shelley B. White Bear Lake, MN

I just finished "The Scent of God" and I felt touched to travel with you through yearnings for God, awareness of your limitations, the excitement of body sensuality, birth and death - so much. -- Anne L., VA

I heard your interview with Kerry Miller last Tuesday and, was finally able to get my hands on your book Saturday… and had devoured it by noon today. Thank you for sharing your story so intimately and skillfully, and for taking the time required to hone such a work of art. I eagerly look forward to any further books you may publish. Your discussion of your father’s addictions and their consequences, and your courage in listening to the voice of God in your life and following its difficult instruction touched me deeply. -- MJL, MN

After reading your book (which took me less than the span of a day in hours), I knew I had to pass it on to my aunt and sister. The best part of the book for me was the prayers that divided the book into sections. Though I don't know anything about what happens within the confines of a convent, much less the existence of the Poor Clares, I thought that those required prayers really set the tone of the book. They also had a calming effect. I almost felt transported into a dark room inside a convent. It had a great effect on me (as a Christian, we sometimes forget how to pray). It is the kind of book that engages the reader and makes one feel guilty for putting it down. I really look forward to the sequel like no other book I've anticipated. Thanks again for sharing your life with us. -- Lisa R., Canada

I have finished your book. It was fabulous! I couldn't even put it down! By any chance will there be a sequel ? I'm curious as to how you coped as a single mother and how you met your current husband. My sincerest condolences to you and your family regarding the death of your daughter. Losing someone you love is a process in life and it's never easy. -- Laura R., ONT

This is not my custom to write an e-mail to an author, but you have opened something inside me that I had hidden deep. You dared to put down on paper, the innermost thoughts that I have had about who I was [as a young nun] and who I am now. There were many similarities - even about our mothers. I could go on and on, but my purpose in this e-mail is to thank you for writing this book and giving me more meaning to my past. God bless you. I hope to learn more about you. -- Dianne D., CA

I feel I know you through this book, The Scent of God. As an Adult Child of an Alcoholic (ACOA), I identified with you as you pulled and pushed me through many emotions. I believe you have a real gift for "talking" for us, the ACOAs of the world. Thank you again. -- Pat H. I am very interested in your book, my mother asked me when a Spanish translation will come out. We found about you in an article reprinted in our newspaper El Nuevo Día Puerto Rico with permission of the Star Tribune of Minnesota. The article title is 'El amor que rompió hábitos' published Tuesday August 15, 2006, there is a photo of you with sister Judi and a photo with your best friend at home in North Shore. Thank you for sharing your life with us -- Dilsia A. Martínez Villalba, Puerto Rico

Thank you for the scent of god. I loved every minute of it. Your writing has inspired me to begin the long journey of putting my life story in words. Perhaps someday my journey with God will inspire others as yours has! -- Kelly R., WI

I recently purchased your book and loved it! You’ve shared a beautiful story with layers of meaning for almost anyone who reads it. I wondered about the title until you shared its origin – then it made so much sense (no pun intended). I’ve kept a book of favorite quotes over the years, and your sentence about finding the “scent of God” wafting through all the events of your life has gone in it. It captures what I’ve often felt, but not verbalized quite as well. Thank you for putting words to my feelings. Once I heard a minister preach on the passage where a woman anoints Jesus’s feet with costly perfume. He said something that has always stayed with me. His take on this passage was, “like the fragrance of costly perfume, the scent of a good deed fills the world”. Your story and your book have left a beautiful, lingering fragrance in my life. I will never face difficult times quite the same again. –- Mary Ann D., GA

I just wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed your book. Having grown up Catholic and attended a strict Catholic parochial school, I was really able to relate to your younger years. I was so interested in your life as a nun. I was hardly able to put the book down. I also wanted to let you know that I admire you and want to thank you for sharing your life with us. -- Irene A., CA

I just finished "The Scent of God." Thank you for writing this book. Everyone has sadness and even tragedy in his or her life. Books like yours lead me to insights on my life and how I can better handle not just the sorrows, but also the joys. Life IS good. -- Jennie, MN

I haven't read your book, but my grandmother did. She is from Puerto Rico, as I am too. Like you I moved from Puerto Rico to Minnesota, but I live in Rochester. As i was talking to my grandmother on the phone sh was telling me about your book and she knew Gogi, especially its foundation, and that she enjoyed your description of Puerto Rico, the beaches at Isla Verde, etc. She loves your book Scent of God.

I started reading The Scent of God on the first day of Passover and finished today, Easter Sunday, also the 5th day of the Omer which is a day for contemplating ‘Humility in Loving-Kindness’. It was a good time of year to read your story which I found inspiring on many levels and a good day to finish it.-- Nathan P., Oregon

I simply wanted to drop you a note and let you know how much I enjoyed your book, The Scent of God. I will be recommending it to my friends. Your life is inspirational and after reading your book, I find that I’ve moved a little step closer to proper perspective of what is the best in life and what we should all cherish: Love, family, faith. Proper perspective is a goal that for me, I have to work hard to attain, balancing work, family and all the things that we overlook because we are too busy rushing through our lives. Thank you for sharing your life so that others might be positively influenced by it. –- Sarah W., WI

Thank you so much for sharing your story with so many people. Again and again, as I read, I found myself identifying with you and with your struggles as well as your continued belief in a God who is love and never abandons us. You have been through so much, and have given the gift to others of telling the story. I want you to know that I for one have found great solace in your writing, particularly as I face difficult days ahead, in many ways similar to what you went through with your beloved Vittorio. -- J.T., PA

Just wanted to let you know Beryl how much I enjoyed your book. Thank heaven's for the front page story about it in the February 26, 2006 edition of the Burlington County Times. What a great story - and perhaps particularly enjoyable for me as it was near where I live in NJ. I hope you continue to write. The book is now being passed around with my relatives all reading it - you're gathering an audience! -- Pattie D., NJ

I really enjoyed The Scent of God. I have to admit, I was a little skeptical at first. There are so many extent tomes about religious life that are simplistic and emotive (from both the condemning and extolling angles). The truth, as you know, is so much more complicated. I'm a prolific reader, and (for me) Scent matches An Infinity of Little Hours (Klein Maguire), Nun (Gilligan Wong), and Seminary: A Search (Hendrickson)in its exceptional exploration of religious vocations from the voices of both those who departed and those who stayed. Thank you for your remarkable work. As one who has "stayed", I appreciate greatly the gift that The Scent of God has been for my journey." -- Ian G., MO

Wow! Thanks for taking the time to write The Scent of God. You've made the world a better place by the life you lead and your ability to change lives with your writing. I can't wait to read your next book! -- Bernadette, Exton, PA

I wanted to let you know that I finished your book last week. I truly loved it. It had that quality that made me want more. I was especially touched by some of the painfully honest moments- like making your mother leave the night your father died- or feeling angry at your husband as he was out trying to find a suitable birthday cake for you in Italy. By exposing your humanity, you forced me to examine my own and forgive both of us. -- Marly C., MN

I have often heard readers comment on how they could not put a book down, but never truly experienced such a connection until "The Scent Of God." Your book challenged my memory of the Catholic Church dogma, it drew me toward it as an arrow pointed toward a target, it touched memories that I thought I had buried. It helped me to write a first rough draft of a short story and I just wanted to share this with you as you so beautifully shared your life with me. You have an admirable ability to accept and understand what we so elusively call love. Your love for God--your love for life--the same. I will be editing my story with my students in the fall and will read highlighted thoughts from your book to assist them in the writing process. I hope to show them, in fact, how to put their thoughts on paper by writing about what they truly know. -- LAINIE FLORES S.A., TX.

Doris Jane Conway here. I already told you how much I liked the book. I gave it to a dear friend of mine who was in the same organization as I was (a family order doing work kind of like the peace corps) for a long time. In the midst of that, married a man who became an invalid about three months after they married and who she cared for for 17 years. He died last September. She is a powerful woman with her own consulting business and a very good reputation for transformative results. The book got her in touch with something she hadn't been able to get in touch with. She is having trouble reading it through because it is raising so many questions for her. So I hope you know that your witness is enabling her journey in a new way. She is in her mid-50s and at yet another turning point in her life. Thanks for your amazing sharing in this book which will enable so many others.

I read The Scent of God over the weekend and was very moved by it. Being Jewish I didn't have convents and priests growing up, but I had that same religious craving you describe from a young age -- in our prayers we had the line you start your book with "May the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be acceptable in thy sight oh lord my rock and my redeemer" and I felt a dual meaning: the craving that comes from feeling unacceptable, and the sense granted by voicing the plea that I or anyone is totally accepted, as if the plea itself plants the sense of acceptance . . . Thanks so much, -- Adrienne

I read your entire book today in about 7 hours . . . could not put it down. Loved it. Thanks for sharing your story. As a devout Catholic, coming from an ethnic close-knit family, and being a jeweler myself, I could connect with many of the incidences you described. You are a talented writer. Please write another giving your readers a follow-up on yourself, mother, son, sister, and brothers. God Bless You,-- Joanne L., GA

How validating and inspiring to read The Scent of God. I was deeply moved by your artistry and raw honesty. The seeker’s life is not easy, but what richness. I hope your book is made into a movie for the masses. It has much to teach. –- Maria F. , NC

I just finished reading your book last night . . . I could not put it down. I read it non stop Friday and Saturday evening into the wee hours. It was a wonderful book. It was so romantic and heartbreaking at the same time. I had tears in my eyes by the time it was finished. Thank you so much for sharing your life in this beautifully written book. It makes me want to know what happened next in your life. -- Lavona C., MN

Thank you for sharing the personal account of your life in your wonderfully written book. You truly have a gift for drawing the reader inside...I felt the high-highs and the low-lows. I want to see all of those beautiful and quaint towns in Italy...and hear more about why people choose that level of selfless devotion to church and God. I look forward to future books by you. -- Sophia Panos, FL

I would like to say thank you for your book, "The Scent of God". While searching for something to read at Barnes and Noble, I came across your book. I put it back three times, and yet was compelled to buy it. Something drew me to read your book. I can not begin to express how your honesty has inspired me. The beautiful way you write of your life and your constant search for God through life, are incredible. I was so moved by how you spoke of your passionate love for God and desire to die to yourself for Him. I saw so much of myself in the need to be consumed by God and yet learn to live and to love in this life. Oddly enough, I know very little about the Catholic church, but was impressed by your honesty. I wept and laughed with you as you told your life in such a beautiful description. Thank you again for writing this book and sharing this with the world. -– Jennie, Plainfield, IN

I've heard from two friends to whom I gave your book and both are raving. One from the subject content being a liberal Catholic, who could not put the book down in every respect. The other, a beautiful writer, loved it from a literary standpoint as well as the subject. Both agree that you write beautifully and I so agree. -– Florence D., DE

It was a rainy day here in New Hampshire so I settle in on the couch with the cats and "Scent of God". Thank you so much. It was a great read and touched me so deeply. Your final note in response to whether or not you regretted leaving the monastery touched me deeply. You accepted your life for what it became and appreciated all that you had been given, including the suffering. Your spirit shined through each page and I understood completely your love for Vittorio and your desire to live God's will in your life. I was very impressed by how strong both your and Vittorio's faith remained and how you still embraced the Church. -– Linda D. – New Hampshire

Thank you, Beryl, for the two fantastic readings this week in Minneapolis. I've been sleep deprived the past couple nights as I read your book until 2 a.m. Your words are honest, courageous, vivid and thoughtful. Thank you for sharing a wonderful story. Peace to you, Christopher I read about your novel in the Star Tribune and thought it sounded interesting so I put a hold on it at the library. When I finally got to check it out, I wasn't sure if I had time to read it. I was also wondering if it was something I could relate to because I am not a religious person and I don't necessarily believe in God. I just wanted to tell you that I read your book in little over a day and just loved it. Your story is universal and anyone can relate to it. I just purchased the book for my mother-in-law, who is extremely religious, and I'm sure we will both pick up different points because of our different backgrounds, but I also know that she will enjoy it as much as I did. Thank you. -- Nicole, Minneapolis

It is midnight here (Chagrin Falls, Ohio) and I have just finished your amazing book. My admiration, not only for your writing skill, but for your courage, compassion, authenticity and faith! I am a convert to Catholicism--which came at 30 years of age. Blessings of beauty to you and thank you for telling your story. -- Debra Classen, OH
p.s. I have begun a Catholic ministry--it is about God's beauty---in the midst of our losses and our suffering. I will recommend your book in our next online journal! Our website: www.themuteswan.com

Thank you so much for sharing your deep loves and sufferings with us. I wept, prayed and rejoiced in your world, a world that, in part, is in all of our stories. As a step mom, Interfaith Ministry Student, Psychologist, widow, asylum and torture Specialist, and tenderer of many souls, you have touched my soul. Your book is opening up new portals to prayer and god, and is making me search deeper for the truths and choices that will best serve myself and others. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your book will be purchased again and again for my dear family and friends. Blessings and light – Rhonda Greenberg, NJ and PA

Your book is awesome for so many reasons. When you first pick it up, it seems as though it would make an interesting read -- a nun falls in love with a priest, etc. I just wish every woman could read this book because it is so much more. As we live our lives as Christians, we often hear about faith, hope and love -- and the greatest of these is love. In every phase of your life, there has been faith, hope and love -- and the greatest has always proven to be love. Your book gave me so much hope in that no matter what we do in our lives there will always be the "scent of God" with us. It just gave me hope that, at the end of the day, I will find that the Lord has always been by my side -- even when I have been at my lowest. -- T.H., PA

I bought your book and became instantly entranced. I finished it yesterday … it's a magnificent achievement and deeply moving … your mastery of language is brilliant and I particularly liked using the Divine Hours as a framework. Thank you for having the courage and fortitude to tell your story. -– Pat F., PA

I have just finished reading The Scent of God and was moved to write to tell you that it was one of the most emotionally affecting and spiritually inspiring books I have ever read. Thank you for your beautiful, honest story ... Your faith and visceral sense of God’s love even in the midst of tragic loss as well as your statement that deep suffering is a prerequisite to true knowledge of what it is to be human continue to resonate inside me. I am a Jew who went to Catholic school for four years, the only non-Catholic in the school. –- Martha, Santa Rosa

thank you for sharing your self, your words, your life, your spirit. nothing has moved me more than this book. you are such (such!) a wordsmith. it is amazing to me. i felt like i should have a scanner in my brain, to remember all your amazing sentences, so poetic. your book, words, life, love, joy, sadness, SELF, will stay with me forever. thank you, for that gift. -- Jessie, MI

I have to say that throughout and upon finishing it, I was weeping. I can't wait to pass it on to my mom. You have a wonderful gift of description and the rhythm of your narrative is absolutely palpable. Thank you for writing this. It has my two thumbs up and I hope I see it on "The New York Times" bestseller list. -- Jennifer H., MA

Bravo! I adored your book even though I knew your story. It is beautifully written and for me, was definitely a page turner. I gulped it down within two days ( I had to make beds and cook meals, etc.) or it would have been one day. -- Millie, Connecticut

Once I started I couldn't put [your book] down. It is a beautiful and honest memoir and it touched me a great deal. I have been telling everyone about it." -- Elizabeth, MN

Beryl, you have written a work of art. This is now one of my most prized possessions. I will read "The Scent of God" over and over. I will pick up on nuances that I missed during this first read. -– Michaele, North Carolina

I loved your book! I read it in one day and enjoyed each page. What a beautiful writer you are Beryl, you take your readers on an incredible journey, and open a window into the monastery - a view so few of us have ever experienced. -– Joy, Fargo

Beryl -- I read the article about you in the Star Tribune and remember you from a class at the Loft (taught by Antiga in 1989). You brought your daughter to class once and I'm so sorry to hear about what happened to her. I can't imagine what it's like to lose a child like that. I remember you as a wonderful person and an excellent writer, and I'm glad that you are now in a happy marriage -- I plan to pick up a copy of your book. -- Jean, MN

Congratulations on this wonderful writing. Convinces me once again that a memoir is more interesting than fiction! –- Doris C. Indianapolis

I just finished your book. Your memoir touched me deeply on many levels. I could identify with some of your experiences, and yearn to be able to one day identify with the kind of love you shared with your beloved Vittorio. The way in which you found the words to tell your story was masterful and immensely beautiful. –- Diane, PA

Beryl, thank you for sharing this intimate part of your life, and that of your daughter. One thing I have learned through my lifetime, and through others is that you cannot blame yourself for the pathways that your children end up taking. They are free to make their own choices, and no matter what we say or do, sometimes it's just not enough to get them to follow the ways we think they should. I am so sorry that your daughter ended up dying at such a young age. I'm sure it has been a tremendous loss for you to cope with over the years. I hope and pray that you are able to find comfort in your writing. -- Dawn

I've just read your book. I was fantastic! It made rethink the relationship I have with my fiancé, whom I know to be God's gift to me but I take it for granted and don't express it. Life is a blessing from God and we have to thank and praise God for all that he does. beyond your honesty about yourself and journey, the thankfulness of God for the blessings of life, in its full variety shines forth in this book Thank you, Beryl!

I finished reading "The Scent of God" yesterday evening. It truly is a soul-riveting book! I believe you will be hearing from women for whom this book made a great impact on them because it helped them with issues of their past. –- Sr. Freida OSB, Duluth

Thank you for sharing your story. It was a "can't put it down" book, so descriptive and personal. -- Dorothea, St. Paul

So very honest and real, beautifully written and gives such insight into the glory and the tragedy of the church. There is so much pathos and humanity and spirituality in the final chapters that brings loose ends together …fantastic!!! -- Mary, MA

How thrilled you must be... and, rightfully so! You have accomplished so much....and one of your beautiful accomplishments is the summary of your experience in your new book. Most importantly, it will help others to see into their own lives and find there riches. –- Edwina, NJ

The way you move the reader, keeping us in suspense, the way your descriptions make the scenes and the feelings come alive ... I am reading in snatches while I stay with the grandchildren and I know tonight will be a late night because I will start reading again after they go to bed. Usually, reading at night puts me right to sleep ... but not your book. It is brilliant!! –- Anne, St. Paul

What a beautiful, blessing your book is! ... I didn't want to put it down so I just carried it with me everywhere I went. I just loved it! Thank you! My Mom gets it next. My book club is reading it for our May selection, and I've suggested it to the book club at church and they are excited to read it too. it...so I've requested that they purchase it. -- Roxanne, Minneapolis

I have not been moved by a book in this way for many, many years. (Need to tidy up my face before going to GS leader meeting tonight!)Thank you for writing a story that can only enrich the lives of those who have the privilege of reading it! -- Gisela S

Beryl, I am not surprised that readers are reacting so positively to The Scent Of God. Throughout the book I was literally catching my breath at the eloquent description, and honest self disclosure on every page. The Scent of God deeply touched my humanity, and my spirituality and enlivened both! This book is a treasure that I will read many times over. Debbie G.- AR

This is so exciting! Every time I see the cover, I am just blown away. Can't wait to read it! Thank you for sharing the journey. -- Sandy B

And that cover is to die for--who wouldn't want to buy that book? -–Christin

So great to know your book is finally being released! You have worked so hard on it! -- Mary Jo

There is a beauty in a monastery that speaks of peace, prayer and solitude...I grew up in Italy and as a young girl at first considered becoming a nun...soon the boys and the flesh dispelled the notion. I will read your book...as an avid reader it will be an emotional journey that I am eager to embrace. Gather is a great place...I did send you an email to buy your book in advance. To be so blessed to word the myriad of emotions and feelings as beautifully as you do...yet to be so blessed to be able to read them and feel them along with you...that is grace. --Raffaella "lee" Cox

I stumbled across your writing on Gather.com because of your connection to the North Shore. (See below for why.) When I read your story about Francesca, I couldn’t stop thinking about it. What courage you have, to live through that pain and then to share it. It feels like your writing has such staying power, not because of how it’s written, but because it’s a true reflection of you. There’s a remarkable aliveness to your style that drew me in right away… a friendliness, too. I’m sure that comes through in all of your stories. You’ve set a wonderful example of writing with heart and courage. Now there will come a day when I set aside my reading and actually write something -- I thank you for that. - Suzanne O’Brien, Minneapolis

Hello Beryl, I may go months before reading a SAVED issue of our two local newspapers. However, I am thankful for Joan's splash on your behalf in the February 10th Cook County News Herald. I have since been clicking and reading until I am almost silly. I have a sister and a niece both writing their memoirs, and hoping for publication somewhere in the future. Naturally, I am forwarding them as many articles on your works, as I possibly can. I have a sister living on Devil Track who also went to your website. Her quote, "Beryl Singleton writes in a way that I want to read more". Beryl, we are both looking forward to reading "The Scent of God". --Shirley Lindgren, Tait Lake

Goose bumps and anticipation. I am your fan! David B.

Hi Beryl, I'm finally visiting your site, and IMPRESSED is a mild word. To think that you write for the "competition," formerly a sister paper. I didn't know... I was looking forward to reading your book when it comes out--now I'm afraid to. It sounds painful. I'm one of those who likes happy endings, and who figures books should be a way of escaping the sometimes too-real world. I'll undoubtedly rethink my inclinations, especially since I've shared so many oblate afternoons with you. Your site reveals a woman who has tasted more of life than most people would want to--but I can vouch for your optimism and sense of hope that permeates whatever you say and share at oblates. We just never know about the lives of those we sit next to, do we? Monica, Two Harbors

Congratulations on your book. As a "friend" on Gather.com, I can't wait to order it.
Thank you for it. Lorraine Lordi

Hi - and I'm awestruck by your website and that gorgeous doggie. Jerine Watson

I was at American Booksellers Assn Winter Conference in Long Beach, CA = Thurs & Fri. and the first book I started reading was your book. As a graduate of 13 years of Holy Child Education that was my first grab. I was at the conference because I am opening a Catholic bookstore in Thousand Oaks, Calif ~ Feb 28th, and will be carrying your book when it is released in paperback, and may even make it a "book club" reading, because it answers so many questions for so many lay people. You are testament to hope springing eternal. And the loss of your daughter, speaks to my worst fears and this mother sends with this email cyberhugs across the miles to MN. Thank you sincerely for sharing. Totus Tuus Claudia

I was moved to tears when I read some of the articles, especially about Cassie and your beloved daughter. As a mother and grandmother myself, my hurts aches for you. I admire your courage and strength and KNOW that Fran is with you as your angel. I know the faith you have in God leads you and also leads others, as you are such an outstanding example of what it is to be a mother and grandmother……I thank you for your sharing and know this will be an inspiration to me as I travel my own personal journey. Thank you, Beryl. Can't wait to read your book in April! --Joanne, MA

Hi Beryl,
I found your website from the link at the bottom of your e-mail. I have saved the location in my 'favorites' and I will return to do some reading. God Bless, Father Mark